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Finding Stability and Predictability in Times of Uncertainty

In the previous blog post, I discussed a UCLA talk by Bhanu Joy Harrison on the topic of Unpredictability and Adapting.  Bahnu emphasised our constant mind-body search for stability and predictability despite continuously encountering uncertainty in our personal lives as well as the world at large. She maintained that we are constantly seeking “an island of coherence in a sea of chaos”. 

The reference to “islands of coherence” is based on the work of Nobel prize winning chemist, Ilya Prigogine, who stated that when systems move away from equilibrium and create chaos, “small islands of coherence” can “shift the entire system to a higher order”.  When applied to our inner world, this concept relates to our capacity through interconnectedness to develop stability and predictability that, in turn, provides us with “strength, calm and groundedness”.

Bhanu maintained in her UCLA podcast that mindfulness practices are a way for us to create our own “islands of coherence”.   On the InsightTimer website, she offers a range of guided meditations on topics such as slowing down, getting unstuck and managing anxiety.  During her podcast, she also  provided a guided meditation on supporting ourselves by creating “islands of coherence”.

Guided meditation – providing support and groundedness

Throughout the guided meditation, Bhanu encouraged us to trust our support. As a starting point, this trusting involved letting our chair support us by enabling our weight to sink into the chair. While being conscious of this support, we can let our mind focus on the power of gravity to hold our posture in place (not allowing us to fly into the air but to stay grounded on the earth).  We can sense the “grounding effect of gravity” on our body.

While being conscious of this groundedness, we can notice what is happening in our body – a slowing of our breathing, loosening of our muscles and bodily tension.  The aim is to drop from our brain into our bodies like dropping an anchor “into the bottom of a lake”.

If we want to contain ourselves bodily we can give ourselves a hug – placing our left hand on our right shoulder and then reversing the process.  Alternatively, we can “feel the solid edges of our body” by squeezing along the length of our arms.  I often found that joining the fingers of both hands together can have this grounding effect as I feel the sensations pulsing through them.

Bhanu reminded us  that “our body holds so much”, including the visceral imprint of trauma.  She suggested that one way to calm the body and mind is to hold our head with two hands – one holding the base of the skull while the other holds the forehead.   Again, she encouraged us to notice any change in bodily sensations, our emotions and our mental activity. 

Bhanu then suggested that we focus on our legs because our legs help us to carry a lot of weight embedded in our torso from the “intensity of life”.  Our body, especially our torso, is activated by stress and being aware of this activation through our legs can “help spread out that activation”.  In particular, exercises such as pressing our feet into the ground (together or alternating) and squeezing down our legs with our hands, can serve to reduce the activation in our torso by spreading the load.  Squeezing down our arms can have a similar positive effect.

Working with the predictable – breathing

Bhanu suggests that when we are overwhelmed by the unpredictable, in whatever form it takes, we can focus on the “predictable” things in our life.  A key element of this strategy is to focus on our breath because “our body knows how to breathe”, no matter what is going on in our life.  Mindful breathing is an important aspect of mindfulness practice and there are many ways to achieve this re-focusing.  James Nestor, for example, promotes intentional breathing as a path to improved health and longevity.

We can breathe with the earth, engage in lower-belly breathing, or rest in our breathing.  Richard Wolf argues that we can develop deep listening through focusing on our breathing which he calls “the sound of your life”.  He maintains that we can listen to our breath just like a musician listens to music.  He provides a number of ways of doing this including listening to the sound of our breath (the inhalation and exhalation), resting in the silence between breaths and breathing in time.

Mast Cell 360 offers breathing as one of the strategies to de-activate the body’s over-active nervous response to perceived “invaders” (food allergies and, in particular, high histamine foods).  For example, in the masterclass, Mast Cell Nervous System Reboot, the course creator, Beth O’Hara provides examples of  “alternate nostril breathing” as one of the strategies she employed to redress the histamine activation effects of Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS).  “Resonance breathing” also forms part of her holistic approach to MCAS and histamine intolerance.

Working with the predictable – alternative strategies

In addition to breathing practices, Bhanu offers other strategies that we can easily employ on a day-to-day basis to focus on the predictable and work to de-activate our bodies from the stress effects of the “unpredictable”.  These practices include:

  • focusing on the seasons of the year which are predicable, especially winter and summer whose arrival is often celebrated with special rituals
  • consciously viewing the sunrise and sunset occurring each day
  • observing the emergence of flowers in Spring, the fall of leaves in Autumn (Fall), the shortening of the day in winter and their lengthening in summer
  • noticing the sun rising early in summer and later in winter
  • thinking about the way you are greeted by your children and your dog when you return from work each day
  • observing the millions of stars that appear each night.

Bhanu suggests that these grounding practices can help us to find peace and calm in times of turmoil – they can become our “island of coherence” in the advent of chaos.

Reflection

Chronic illness is often unpredictable and can prove to be complex and difficult to resolve.  The uncertainty about its development and resolution and the lack of help from the medical profession can exacerbate the situation.  Chronic illness too is disruptive, impacting quality of life and self-identity.

The mindfulness practices proposed by Bhanu can help to manage chronic illness.  As we grow in mindfulness, we can better regulate our emotions, draw inspiration from people who have mastered their debilitating situation, and find creative ways to address our own limitations and constraints.

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Adapting to Unpredictability

Bhanu Joy Harrison provided a meditation podcast  on Unpredictability and Adapting in September this year.  Her session was one of the weekly meditations and talks offered by UCLA Health.  Bhanu is an accredited meditation teacher and clinical social worker specialising in the resolution of trauma.  She integrates neuroscience with mindfulness practices to enable people to achieve greater joy, balance and resilience.  Bhanu provides classes, workshops and resources to assist people to manage the daily challengers of unpredictability.  Her website provides a series of guided meditations and she offers access to an app that serves as a journalling guide. 

Impact of unpredictability

Drawing on neuroscience, Bhanu maintains that our brain and nervous system is forever seeking stability and predictability as this provides us with an abiding sense of control and safety.  In our daily life, however, we have to deal with the unpredictability of our own health, our workplaces and interactions, our shopping and entertainment environments and our social and family encounters.  The unpredictability and challenge to our stability of these daily events can lead to stress, overwhelm and inability to cope.

In her talk, Bhanu pointed out how much we rely on past experience to predict what will happen in the future as a result of current events.  We look for reliability and steadiness in our life.  She contends that our past experience provides us with some form of scaffolding or framework that influences our perceptions and our predictions.  

Mindfulness as a toolbox for managing unpredictability

Bhanu contends that mindfulness practices progressively build our personal resources and provide us with a toolbox to draw on to manage unpredictable situations.  In contrast, mindless absorption of news and replaying of adverse events serves only to destabilise us and reactivate our stress response.

Bhanu argues that we often look to the past to seek out ways to achieve steadiness, comfort or groundedness.  Unfortunately, our past solutions typically involve short-term solutions which prove to be maladaptive in the medium to long term – solutions such as overeating, drinking excessive alcohol to numb the pain or discomfort, “seeking illicit pleasure”, increasing caffeine consumption or scrolling endlessly through social media to distract us from the challenge of the present moment.  

Drawing on her extensive experience with clients and the increasing body of research on mindfulness, Bhanu asserts that mindfulness practices undertaken with clear intention and self-kindness effectively create “a different input” for our nervous system than that created by our maladaptive solutions.  In her words, mindfulness is capable of enabling us to “generate a different kind of sensory, emotional and mental response” to unpredictability and the related stimuli such as fear, anxiety and sense of loss of control.

Bhanu argues for creating an “ever-growing toolbox of ever-adaptive and helpful skills” through mindfulness practices. She encourages us to develop a “big variety of options” so that we can resource ourself effectively when we encounter the  diverse challenges associated with unpredictability. Her suggestions for mindfulness practices include:

Bhanu argues that by developing a mindfulness toolbox, we are resourcing ourself for times when we are overwhelmed by the unpredictable such as a chronic illness diagnosis or the death of a loved one.  She provides the example of one of her clients who experienced a “tsunami of grief” to illustrate this point.  As Bhanu explains, when we experience grief our rational, analytical brain is hijacked by the amygdala and our lower brain. This shuts down our capacity to engage in logical thinking and solution generation.  We then need “an escape hatch out of lower brain structures” (limbic system and brainstem). 

Bhanu’s client developed an “escape hatch” in the form of a Mason jar where she stored pieces of paper recording “things that I can do in the moment” – simple things such as drink water, pat an animal, call a friend or relative or breathe deeply and slowly.  On the jar she placed a picture of a life-jacket to remind herself “to put her life-jacket on” by accessing her jar and the suggestions within that could help her “settle herself, come back to the present moment and ground herself”.

The jar proved to be a ready resource that was both physical and accessible and provided a choice of pathways back to mindfulness and groundedness.  It meant that she did not have to think in the moment about what resources she had available to her to access the stability and control provided by mindfulness.

Awareness of our “Circle of Influence”

Bhanu suggests that we think about our Circle of Influence – identifying the things that we can control and those that are outside our control. This then involves letting go of what we can’t control.

By way of example, Bhanu suggested that the things you can’t control include:

  • the weather
  • events beyond our country
  • the emotions or opinions of other people
  • traffic flow
  • natural disasters.

Unfortunately, we can spend a lot of time going over events beyond our control through obsession with the news, over-concern with other people’s views of us, and anxiety about potential natural disasters.

Bhanu indicated that one thing we do have control over is our choices.  For example, we can choose to be continually disrupted by “external noise” or we can spend time with relaxing music, enjoying nature or just being quiet.  We can choose to avoid foods that create a “flare-up” for us or indulge at our own expense. We can also choose how we respond to stimuli – recognising that there is a gap between stimulus and response.

We can choose to listen to our internal critic telling us that “we are not good enough” or “consciously shift to something else” that is positive and helpful.  Our choices extend to controlling our words and tone of voice – we can reaffirm that “I can control what comes out of my mouth”.  Our boundaries are also under our control if we choose –  for example, deciding when to say “yes” or “no”.  We can develop a mindset consistent with an “internal locus of control”– where we are not totally controlled by external events but believe that we have some influence on our environment, are willing to take responsibility for our actions and respond proactively to unpredictable events in our life such as chronic illness.

Reflection

In seeking to manage the unpredictable in our life we can learn from people like Jean-Dominique Bauby.  Despite suffering a massive stroke that left him unable to talk or move, he was able to create his memoir by blinking one eye to let his specialist nurse know word by word what he wanted to say.  His other strategies for gaining stability and control included humour and virtual travel.

As we grow in mindfulness through a range of mindfulness practices, we can enhance our personal resources and develop a readymade toolbox to achieve stability and control in times of unpredictability such as chronic illness or the death of a loved one.

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